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11 Positive Things to Expect from Kinky Women

If you’re looking for a little adventure in the bedroom, dating a kinky woman is a great way to get started. Exciting, daring and not afraid to try new things, casual sex with a kinky woman can open up a whole new world of sexual possibilities.

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Kinky women are headstrong, confident and very hot!

A kinky woman is someone who likes unusual sexual behaviour. Of course, exactly what constitutes “unusual” differs from one person to the next. So, if you’re unsure about what lies ahead, here are 11 things to expect from the kinky woman in your life.

1. They’re Empathetic in the Bedroom

There is a common misconception that kinky women are selfish in the bedroom, but nothing could be further from the truth. In actual fact, kinky women get off on the emotions and reactions they cause. As a result, don’t be surprised to see your lady ask how you’re feeling at regular intervals.

When you try a new role-play or fetish for the first time, she’ll probably check that you’re enjoying it throughout. And when you’re done, she’ll want to talk.

PRO TIP:

When asked about how you feel, be completely honest. Only through complete honesty will you both be able to get what you want from sex.

2. They Like to Experiment

Kinky women like to experiment with different situations, locations, positions and characters, so expect a real adventure. Whether it’s dogging sex or dirt chat on the phone, she’ll want to try things at least once before deciding whether or not to do it again.

PRO TIP:

Try to be as accommodating as possible when it comes to trying new things — otherwise your lady might look elsewhere for what she needs.

3. They’re Kind

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Kinky women have something of an image problem. While many people assume they must be selfish and unkind, the truth of the matter is that they’re often kind and generous. Because these women are comfortable in their own skin, they don’t seek to belittle or embarrass others.

They are keen to make the men in their life feel comfortable and satisfied — which is great news for you if you’re looking for a kinky affair.

4. They’re Fit and Flexible

Kinky women have LOTS of sex, and in many different locations and positions. As a result, most of them are fit and flexible, which is great news for your sex life. In order to keep their frantic sex life as rewarding as possible, many kinky women put the hours in at the gym, so you might need to raise your own fitness game.

5. They Usually Have their Emotions in Check

In order to go through with some very challenging sexual exploits, kinky women need to have their emotions in check. They might have different sexual partners, and they may be pushing the boundaries in the bedroom. You can’t do these things and have fun if your emotions aren’t under control.

6. They’re Confident

Kinky women have experience in approaching men and women with new and unusual ideas for sex. In many cases, they’ve met with strangers or persuaded friends and lovers to experiment. They have been in the most compromising situations and remained calm enough to enjoy the experience.

As a result, these women are confident in all walks of life — which is usually a very sexy character trait.

7. They’re Respectful

Kinky sex always calls for a level of mutual respect. Both parties have to trust one another for unusual sexual activity to be relaxing and enjoyable. As a result, kinky women are, by their very nature, thoughtful and respectful.

These ladies are constantly asking their sexual partners how they feel about things in the bedroom, and that nurturing, respectful attitude is often replicated in their daily life.

8. They’re Unique

Being kinky in the bedroom requires a very specific set of character traits. Generally, kinky women are headstrong, confident and have a very clear idea of who they are and what they want. If you haven’t dated kinky women before, your first time will show you just how special and unique they can be.

9. They Are Often Timid

One of the reasons why many women are kinky in the bedroom is because they are reserved and staid in real life. The opportunity to become someone else during sex is an alluring one, and empowers a woman who ordinarily doesn’t take the lead in social situations.

The moment you take off a kinky woman’s clothes, you unleash a sexual beast that wants to take control. The bedroom is their theatre — where they can assume a role and act out their wildest fantasies. And when they return to reality, they become the timid and shy women they always have been.


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10. They Get Turned on By What They Hear

This is where men and women are very different when it comes to sex. Kinky men get turned on by what they see, while kinky women are turned on by what they hear… or occasionally what they read. A kinky woman doesn’t want to sit at home watching porn when she can be doing the real thing.

She wants her man to whisper what he’s going to do to her. She wants him to explain, in detail, exactly what is going to happen. If you can create a story that really captures her sexual imagination, you could be in for the time of your life.

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Prepare to have the most exciting and eye-opening times in your life!

11. She'll Never Stop Learning About Herself

One of the main problems about being a kinky woman is the fact that kinkiness often relates to trying new stuff for the first time. For instance, once a woman has tried bondage a few times, the kinkiness is often lost.

In order to keep things hot and exciting, she needs to be constantly pushing the boundaries and testing herself. Sometimes, she won’t like new stuff, but other times it will be electric. She’s constantly learning about her own sexuality — a process that might never end.

Dating a kinky woman promises to be one of the most exciting and eye-opening times in your life. If you know what to expect from her in advance, you can make sure that the experience is as life-changing as it can be.

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