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The great blowjob question - should I spit or swallow?

Scared girl about to throw upOral sex, mouthhug, shining the knob... whatever you call it, a blowjob is a blowjob. They feel great for the guy, are fun to give and build a sense of intimacy while offering an alternative to using birth control, which can be a lifesaver if you're having a fling. Besides, chances are your guy will be super grateful when you are done pleasuring him.Blowjobs can be intimidating if you have never given one - and you might wonder what to do when your guy comes. Should you spit or swallow?

Before you get started...

A good blowjob requires a little bit of preparation. You cannot dive in without a plan, especially if this is your first time giving head.First of all, you need to be in a position that is comfortable for you and your partner. Some men completely lose control when they come and you do not want to find yourself unable to pull away in case you start chocking and want to spit. The best positions include having your man stand up and kneeling in front of him, having him lay down or sit back.Ask your man to let you know when he is about to come. And keep asking! Guys will let you know at the very last possible moment if you do not keep communicating while you give head. If you wait for your guy to give you the signal, you might not have enough time to switch position or prepare yourself. Obviously you should not spend the entire time talking because your mouth will be busy, but taking breaks now and then to ask how he feels and what he likes is a great way to build intimacy and will help you figure out what he likes best.If you decide to spit, plan in advance and keep something like a towel nearby so you have something to spit on. There is nothing less sexy than frantically running to the bathroom to spit and rinse your mouth, if you find out you do not like the taste of semen. If you decide to swallow, keep some water nearby in case you need to wash off the taste.Hygiene is important! Talk to your guy about washing before you go down on him. This will make the whole experience a lot more pleasant for you. And you should of course make sure he has been tested for STDs. If your man has not been tested, you need to use a condom and the spitting or swallowing question should not even come up.

Spitting or swallowing?

There are a few things you need to know before you decide if you would rather spit or swallow. There are two questions you are probably asking yourself if you have never given head...What does it feel like? This really depends on how hard the guy cums, and on how long it has been since the last time. Semen can shoot out at a surprising speed or just drip. An ejaculation is typically between 2 and 5 milliliters of semen, so you really do not have to worry about being unable to swallow because of the volume.What does it taste like? You have probably heard that semen is warm, salty and can have a metallic taste. Some women find the taste unpleasant while other do not mind it. The truth is, every man's semen tastes different. Lifestyle and diet can affect the way sperm tastes and since everyone perceives taste differently, you won't know what your man's semen really tastes like until he finishes in your mouth. The good news is, it probably won't taste as bad as what you imagine.

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Arguments in favor of swallowing

Why should you end a blowjob by swallowing? First of all, it's really not as gross as it sounds. Blowjobs can get sloppy and messy and you need to be ready to share fluids with your partner. In fact, you should be turned on at the idea of sharing bodily fluids. This is what happens during sex, and if the idea grosses you out, you are either not ready or just not that into him.Swallowing is your best option if you are worried about the taste. Your man will come towards the back of your mouth. If you swallow, you will only feel the taste for a few seconds and might experience an after taste. If you spit, you will end up with a mouth filled with semen and will fully experience the taste.Swallowing is really hot! Your man will love the idea that you are swallowing a part of them. And this should turn you on too if you are into the guy and want to go down on him. If this doesn't sound hot to you, maybe you shouldn't be giving this guy head in the first place.Believe it or not, but there are some health benefits to swallowing. Researchers have found that semen contains melatonin among other substances that act as a mood-booster once they are in your system. You read that right, scientists believe that swallowing will make you feel good!

Arguments in favor of spitting

There are some arguments in favor of spitting too. This is definitely what you should do if you are not comfortable with swallowing for any reason. If you are completely disgusted at the idea of swallowing, you should definitely ask yourself why you want to go down on this man in the first place.Some guys find spitting hot! Of course your man will not enjoy it if you turn your head and spit while making a disgusted face. But having cum drip out of your mouth can be really hot and a lot of guys are into that since this is fairly common in porn movies.

In the end...

This is pretty much everything you need to know in order to make an informed decision about spitting or swallowing. It can be difficult to decide what to do for your first blowjob and you should definitely take some time to think about how you feel about either option. Remember that there are alternatives to spitting and swallowing and that feeling grossed out about semen is probably a sign that you need more time or that there just isn't that magic sparkle in the relationship.

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